Betrayal to Breakthrough

Betrayal affects millions , but you’re not alone, and you’re not crazy!

Hi, I’m Coke Elms, a certified life coach, specializing in post betrayal transformation, chronic stress, mindset and financial literacy. Betrayal shakes the very foundation of who you are. While there are many forms of trauma, betrayal is a specific type that needs to be addressed differently. Good news! Through my research, personal experience, and education through the PBT Institute, I discovered that there’s a predictable, proven process to guide you from betrayal to breakthrough. My mission is to guide you through the pain and confusion of betrayal, so you don’t have to suffer as long as I did. Allow me to be your partner in progression. The NEW YOU starts here!

Meet your Guide

A Kind Heart for your Hardest Days

A Safe Harbor for Your Story

I provide a judgment-free space where your pain is validated, not rushed. Healing begins the moment you feel truly heard and understood by someone you can trust.

From Surviving to Thriving

Recovery isn’t just about “getting over it” – it’s about transformation. I am here to help you move past the daily grind of survival and into a life where you feel empowered, grounded, and fulfilled.

The Return of Your Joy

Your peace of mind is my greatest success metric. I focus on gentle, proven methods that help dissolve the weight of your trauma and restore genuine joy and purpose in your life.

The Emotional Impact

What Betrayal can Feel Like

According to the PBT Institute, people who have experienced betrayal trauma report one or more of the following symptoms.

Revisiting Betrayal /
Racing Thoughts

Inability to
Trust

Intense
Fear

Hypervigilance

Feeling of
Helplessness

Loss of Personal
Power

Painful
Triggers

Extreme
Fatigue

Unable to
Focus

Digestive
Issues

Have a Heart to Heart

Offering Unfiltered
One-on-One Partnership

You aren’t just a name on a calendar. Every session is a dedicated 1:1 sanctuary where the entire focus is you and your goals.

Finely Curated Journey

Tailored Roadmaps and not just Generic Checklists

I don’t use cookie-cutter coaching plans. Because your trauma is unique, your path to healing must be, too. Together, we will create a personalized roadmap that integrates your specific goals, your pace of healing, and your personality.

Your Progress Portal

Healing with a Personalized Healing Dashboard

Replacing the “guesswork” of healing with a Personalized Healing Dashboard. This private, secure space allows you to track your milestones, revisit session notes, and visually see your progress over time.

Paths to Peace

Support for Every Stage of Recovery

The Discovery Phase

This is our initial conversation to reflect on where you are now and where you want to go.

$175

The New You

Betrayal flips your world upside down. This phase is about finding your footing.

$125

Surviving to Thriving

It’s the beautiful journey during which we move you from “okay” to a life of lightness and joy.

$595

Real Stories of Hope

Insights & Encouragement

Gentle Reminders for the Road Ahead

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